"Hello....How are you?" I just heard the Adele song and it's running in my head. I haven't been writing as much lately, I definitely enjoy speaking more than writing at the moment. Which is why there is the amazing opportunity with Blog Talk Radio to do just that! All of the shifting of energies and consciousness that has been taking place has been such a wild ride hasn't it? Sometimes it may feel like you are going crazy...that you are the only one that is feeling the "weirdness." I am here to tell you that you are not alone. There are many of us that can feel it at such a deep level. I am here to support you. I love you and I am so grateful that you are a part of my life.
http://tobtr.com/8075155 This link is my show that talks about energetic oneness. I encourage you to take a listen and reach out for support for each other and to each other.
Wow! It sure has been a while since I have wrote on my blog. So much has happened! I continue to have my weekly blogtalk radio. If you are interested in listening in, even to the archives, click herehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/chenergy . There is a poem/saying that talks about relationships being reasons, seasons, and lifetimes. For the most part I agree with the poem/saying. Relationships are another form of energy, can you allow them to flow in what ever direction they are meant to flow? Sometimes we hold on to relationships way past their due date. Because they are safe, we are in our comfort zone, we don't want to hurt or upset the other person. How is that serving our growth? Our evolution? Our rise in consciousness? It ultimately doesn't help either one of you. Check out my blog talk for more information on this! I love you all!
Have you ever met Anger's Little Cousin? Thanks to the writer's of Anger Management the movie, I can talk about denial. How often does denial play a role in your world? Check out my Blog talk for more of a chat about this and more! http://goo.gl/forms/vFdTUidZrM
What happens to you when you get triggered by someone? What do you do? We can often have a reaction within us when we come across someone that does something that we don’t always agree with. What can we do when this happens? Love ourselves for the very reason that is triggering us. Regardless if there is a trigger or not, we can love ourselves even deeper than we ever have before. It is endless. Just when we think we understand and have the Self - Love, We can do it even more. So when we find someone that we get triggered by, love ourselves deeper.
There is a question that comes up frequently regarding our light and keeping it bright. Especially when we have loved ones that may not be where we are with our growth. The question is I often hear is how do I keep my light shining, keep my frequency up when my partner is going through their “stuff.” The answer is by being you. Be who you are. Live your truth. Practice what you preach. We all have the right words that we can say, however, are we living those words or are they just being regurgitated? Allowyour loved ones to be with where they are and you hold where you are. They can rise up if they choose, but you don’t need to lower your vibration. It’s the opposite direction of where you want to be.
It doesn’t feel good if we are always trying to reach down or most likely step down to try to get them to come up to where we are in our growth. That in fact disempowers them. We are trying to take those steps for them. How would they ever be able to learn to step with their own two feet if we are constantly trying to do it for them? It may not be your way or how you would even approach the stairs, however, we still need to honor the fact that they want to travel this way. Be the light in the darkness, the sunshine in the rain and allow them their freedom!
What does it really mean being present in the moment? How do you interpret being in the moment? I have been having a whole new perspective on this very topic. The moment IS all that we have. Obviously if you are in danger in any way, remove yourself from that present situation. This moment, now this moment, etc. is where we are. So I choose to look at it and everything around me as if I have never seen it before. I haven't ever been in this moment before, so I am new to this moment. Like a newborn that looks around with wide eyes and smiles. We are so blessed to be in this very moment. In this breath, in this body.
So act as if it's your first time being in this moment (which it is), smile and be grateful for this beautiful small piece of time.
What is your Truth? I implore you to really look long and hard at what your Truth is. Is it really yours? Or is it someone else's that you have adopted or that someone coerced you into thinking it is yours. You may think, "Nicole! How in the heck do I know if it's my Truth or someone else's?" This is the part where you trust yourself. Trusting that you will have the right answers and that you will have obvious signs of those answers. Still confused? Bottom line....trust yourself. You always have your back.:)
Have you ever asked yourself , "Why does it matter?" or "Who Cares?" You are not alone. We have all questioned ourselves at one time or another. I used to ask myself these very questions ALOT! What are the answers that you get when you ask those questions? Listen to my blog talk to hear what some of my answers are to those questions and more! http://tobtr.com/7553703
Manifest your Destiny. Wow. That has a whole new meaning from when I learned a similar term in high school. As I was sitting here allowing the words to download through me, that popped in. Manifest your Destiny. That is exactly what we do in all areas of our life. We manifest our destiny. Some may ask," Nicole! How can you possibly say that?!?!?!?! Am I destined to be poor, in a horrible relationship, dead-end job, etc.?" If that is what you truly desire, then so it shall be. We manifest what will bring us the most clarity, growth and propel us to grow and expand ourselves. We will all eventually be at our destiny, which brings me to the definition of destiny. From Merriman-Webster: Destiny - what happens in the future : the things that someone or something will experience in the future : a power that is believed to control what happens in the future. We can manifest what it is that we truly want in our lives. Want to manifest something? Love yourself more. Want to have more abundance? Love yourself more. The more we stay in the love state and surender the need to have control of every detail, the more we will attract what we really want. It's ok if we don't feel loving all of the time, do loving things for and to yourself anyway. You will notice a difference.
After I started writing this, I found that Wayne Dyer has a book called Manifest Your Destiny. How cool is that?!?!?!?!?!
How have you incorporated Self - Love into your life? What are the different ways that you give yourself love? Love is the highest frequency, so why would we choose any other energy, right? Well, sometimes it happens doesn't it. You are swimming along in your Self - Fullness, when, WHAM! you get knocked into another energy that feels like a lower vibration than love. What do you do in that situation? I know we have all been there, and probably will be again. Allow yourself to feel whatever vibration that is flowing through you. Observe it. Acknowledge it. Fully allow it and you will notice how quickly it will move through you. Try something new as you are feeling the flow of it. Try and give yourself a compliment. For example, I was feeling pretty cranky last week, so I what did I do? I complimented my crankiness. I said, "Wow Nicole, you are rockin' that crankiness!" It made me laugh, and my mood lightened. Try that this week. No matter what it is that you are feeling, thinking or doing, compliment yourself. Even if you think you are making a "mistake." Try it! I would love to hear how it goes!
Inner Child....are you wondering, what the heck are you talking about Nicole? Is that a joke? Yeah, Yeah, Yeah, blah, blah, my inner child. I am seriously talking about the inner child. The little girl or boy that resides within you. Yep, that one. We are all still kids at heart. Kids at heart. Our soul is in our heart. Ahh....our heart. The gateway to the Divine, to our soul. Our inner child is our innocence. Think about a child. They are in the moment, playing, in the joy state, loving without conditions and grudges are foreign to them. When did it become foreign to us to do those very same things? Did someone tell you at some point in your life to grow up? Stop being so childish? Don't be a baby!? So we start ignoring that inner child. We create a separateness within us. And suddenly we stop all of the playing, being in the moment, loving without conditions, etc. We start having an inner and outer conflict. In essence, we start rebelling againt ourselves.
How can we reconnect with that innocence? That little girl or boy? Yep, you guessed it. By going inward. AND, even just as important if not more important, by playing. What games did you love to play when you were a kid? What foods did you like to eat? What kind of books did you like to read? DO. ALL. OF. IT. Don't be concerned with what others think. That's none of your business. If you are worried about the food and maybe it isn't healthy, there are always healthier versions of the foods we love. Put the love into the food. Recognize it as energy and consciousness and love it! Your body will thank you. Your little girl or boy will thank you and 7.2 billion people will thank you. When you can keep yourself in that joyous playful state, you are in the high love vibration, which has the ripple effectto the entire consciousness. And that my friends, is Self-Love at it's finest.:)
Syncronicity - The simultaneous occurrence of events that appear significantly related but have no discernible causal connection. How often do syncronicities happen in your world? I have noticed them all of my life. I would say the most prevalent one in my childhood was seeing 12:34 on the clock. 11:11 is a common one to show awakening. As I ponder syncronicities, (since the word coincidence is only in my vocabulary to write it in these parentheses) I find them more and more fascinating. This is probably because I am noticing them. All. Of. The. Time. There are so many happening that I don't know if I can keep track.
One that happens to keep showing up in my world is Texas. It shows up as Texas license plates, people I meet are from Texas, I read the word Texas, hear it on TV, etc. Eventually I will figure out what is going on ....right? Regardless of the reason, it makes me smile and it is a wonderful reminder that everything is happening simultaneoulsy. Time is not linear even though our brains try to organize it that way. Smile, breathe and know it's all perfect and Divine.:D